Men are often told what not to be, but rarely what they should be—no clear standards, no expectations, no roles that demand discipline, purpose, or accountability.
So are men truly “lost” because traditional masculinity is flawed, or because society stopped teaching responsibility, duty, and self-control? Without structure, challenge, and responsibility, can anyone—especially young men—develop a strong sense of identity and purpose?
They’re lost because no one tells them what responsibility is anymore.